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How The Four Agreements Changed My Life

(Last Updated On: September 23, 2021)

One of the most important wisdom teachings of the Tolèque tradition is that we all dream – a unique vision and experience of the universe. It`s at the beginning of “The Four Chords” and my experience is that a lot of people slip through that part and go to the chords. Stay with me on this one. An old friend read this book to me once, when I went through a difficult time in my life. At first, I thought he was crazy because Dr. Seuss writes for children. But by the end of the book, I was in tears and it became one of my favorites. Everyone is going through difficult times. Some of them are scary. But you`re going to go through them all. Our words are so powerful. They can be used to create and can be used to destroy.

They create our reality and our dreams. Over time and with exercise, I changed the words that I not only allowed others to abuse against me, but also to abuse. Well said, Coleen. Often, people don`t see how they make decisions, how they can leave negative experiences behind. You seem to have a good understanding of how you can overcome the past and achieve happiness in life. How do we know the correct interpretation of Ruiz`s reference to John 1,1-5? We could break one of his four agreements and make an assumption about his intention. Or if you`re really interested in the truth, you might ask him. I made reading an integral part of my life about three years ago. There is a lot of knowledge and wisdom in the books of people who have lived and researched for years and put all their secrets into books. These agreements seem simple, and they are. In practice, however, they are much harder.

But if you do your best every day (do you see what I did there?), you will soon start building these habits and changing with them all your life. I probably quote this book every day, because the lessons always stay with me. I think every time I have a problem, one of these lessons applies and turns me around. Of course, if you haven`t read this book yet, I highly recommend it, and I`d like to share my vision of these four truths, so that you can now incorporate them into your life! My first man used his words as weapons of mass destruction. He used it to divide, separate and confuse. He used his words to scare, judge and feel bad. Until I found Don Miguel Ruiz`s book The Four Chords, I didn`t know what he was doing or why he was doing what he was doing. I didn`t know what I didn`t know. I understood the strength and effect we have with our words, until this transformative book found me. Ironically or divinely, it appeared in my life when my first marriage ended in divorce in 2002. And on Oct.

25, 2013, in an article on how to be blameless with your word on the heal your life website (www.healyourlife.com/why-you-need-to-be-impeccable-with-your-word), he said, “Your word is the strength you have to create. Your word is the gift that comes directly from God.


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